On the 11th day of the first month, five customs and two taboos should be kept in mind to ensure family harmony and prosperity

2022-04-30 0 By

“Not out of the first month is the year”, the Lunar New Year from the twelfth month began to open the prelude, to New Year’s Eve and the first day of the New Year gradually into the climax, after the fifth lunar flavor continues to fill the air, to the fifteenth day of the first month will usher in a climax.Almost every day of the first month has legends and traditions, and it is because of these legends and traditions that our Lunar New Year is full of flavor and flavor.The 11th day of the 1st lunar month is an important time in the 1st lunar month, because at this time, the year has almost come to an end and people begin to prepare for the production of the New Year, as well as for the 15th day of the 1st lunar month, the last day of the 1st lunar month.The eleventh day in folk also referred to as “the son in law day” or “expand day”, because held during the Chinese New Year a lot of sacrifices and preparation of food, especially the 9th and 10th after worship “the god” and “land”, also left a lot of gifts, this time will be called the son-in-law to enjoy in the home, the sacrificial offerings of also referred to as the “bottom”,Letting his son-in-law eat it is also meant to make him feel lucky.On the 11th day of the first lunar month, there are five customs and two taboos to remember. This is also for family harmony and prosperity in the New Year.The daughter who gets married in the first month and the 12th month is the hardest, because she has to be busy with the size of her husband’s business, and during the Chinese New Year, she can go back to visit her parents and elders on the second day, and other time to be busy with the size of her home and her husband’s business.On the eleventh day of the first lunar month, all the busy work has been basically finished, this time to start preparing for the New Year’s work, especially in the new era of women, not only to go to work but also take care of the housework and education of children, a rare time to go home to visit their parents.Daughters married on the day can take their husbands and children back to their parents’ homes to enjoy the treatment of being the apple of their parents’ eyes.The 15th day of the first lunar month is also known as “Shangyuan Festival”, which is also a festival for offering sacrifices to ancestors. In addition to decorating your home with lanterns, you also need to prepare small lanterns for sacrifice. This is called “sending lanterns” in the folk, so that the deceased ancestors can find their way home.On the 11th day of the first lunar month, people should prepare lanterns and sacrificial lanterns for the 15th day of the first lunar month. If they cannot get away from the 15th day of the first lunar month, they can also go to the cemetery for sacrificial ceremonies from the 11th day of the first lunar month.Three, home for this year to children or have more children to relatives and friends to send candy and light on the 11th and expand their mouth and prepare plans to the child’s family is one of the most important day, in order to wish the coming of a new life in the home, but also for the children have a bright future in the home, on the eleventh day also want to advance the lights light up in the home,Because lanterns and ding in many local dialects of the same pronunciation, light also points to the meaning of ding.On the eleventh day is just family with children in the home, back to parents-in-law give parents relatives over there the day of the New Year, this time will give parents relatives and friends to send over some candy, also indicates the home to expand with the mouth, the general is given priority to with sesame seed candy, candy heralds the home such as sesame flowering successively high fertility and more days.Four, the father-in-law to buy food to entertain the son-in-law “uncle, chicken no soul”, the first month is the day of the father-in-law to entertain guests son-in-law, the food naturally to prepare some grand, so that the son-in-law appears to be valued feeling, so in the New Year to their daughter better, can husband and wife harmony and prosperity.The father-in-law must prepare some implied good food for his son-in-law, such as chicken, and choose rooster;The fish should be served whole, indicating a rich and abundant life, and the dishes should be an even number, so it is unlucky to have odd numbers.The 11th day of the first lunar month is also called “Shangkai Festival”, because it is the day for son-in-law and daughter to return home, my grandparents will prepare small lanterns for my nephew, which has the implication of welcoming spring and blessing.Remember before the fifth day of the first month, the street there are a lot of vendors selling lanterns, lanterns at that time are paper paste, the middle to leave a lamp holder, put half of the candle lit, many children will carry the small lantern out to play in the night, this has a year without disease and bright bright meaning.Now the lanterns are made of plastic, lit by batteries and bulbs, but I feel like I don’t have the pleasure of lighting a paper lantern.The eleventh day has come to the working day, this time people have begun normal study and work, and the eleventh day is after the start of spring, a year’s plan depends on spring, the plan of the day is in the morning, this time is not to lie in bed.If you go to the abbot’s house on the eleventh day of the first lunar month, you should stay early rather than late. Although you are a guest of the abbot’s house on that day, arriving after noon or stepping on the rice point is obviously a particularly rude behavior.The 11th day of the first lunar month is called “Son-in-law Day,” but if you don’t have a daughter, how can you have a son-in-law?In fact, this day is a festival for married daughters and a day for their parents to entertain their sons-in-law in order to make them more influential in their parents’ family.Son in law day married woman should not be working and move the needle and thread, because as a holiday, busy for a month, and in the first month, also should have a good rest and enjoy the sweet time with family members, and led the eleventh day again busy to open a New Year, the day moving needle work by their parents to see can feel love dearly, will also feel a pain in his son-in-law not daughter-in-law,On a day like this, his wife works.Chinese New Year is a year of custom and pay attention to, it is because of these years of custom and pay attention to, just make our year is full of flavor, in the flavor of today, some old customs pay attention to, will also make our life more interesting, we think?